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Summer fun June 28, 2008

Filed under: Attachment Parenting, Parenting, family, free play, fun, imagination, kids, summer, thinking out loud — East Coast Momma @ 10:16 pm

Making memories for our children is so important.  When I look back on my own childhood, summer is connected to a lot of my good memories.  Playing outside with my siblings, cousins and friends in our pool, our house was always the favorite, thanks to my laid back & fun momma.  Homemade popsicles, camp outs in the back yard, swimming at night, chasing fireflies, riding my bike, climbing trees, summer reading club at the library, taking walks with my family, watching some television before bed (Fraggle Rock, or the Muppet show were favorites) fresh from the bath, my long hair dripping down the back of my nightgown, feeling tired in a good way. 

I see too many children today over scheduled during the summer, it is almost like they are still in school.  When I had a career that revolved around children, it saddened me to see that imagination doesn’t seem to play a part with mainstream kids.  If they aren’t doing one of their extracurriculars they are zoning in front of video games, IM, movies, and television.  Of course we wanted to do that as children, but our parents didn’t allow it.  We all had one choice for an extracurricular, and the rest of the summer was dedicated to play, imagination, and fun.  None of us are worse for the wear because of it.  This is what I want for my children, while I do understand the importance of a balanced life with some extracurriculars, I think down time is just as important.

 

 

Holiday traditions part one June 24, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — East Coast Momma @ 1:57 pm

Fourth of July

Traditions are so important for families, and children love the routine and rhythm associated with them.  It is important to me to provide my children with special memories that will stay with them through their whole lives.  We are especially lucky on July 4th, because behind our house a farm family has their own fireworks show that rivals the professional one done by our town, and near by big city.  So all we need to do is saunter out onto the deck and watch an amazing show.  We are blessed with good family and friends close by, and this year East Coast grandparents will be joining us.

The menu:

grilled chicken, cod, and vegetables

blueberry-strawberry rustic tart

red, white, and blue jello shapes

berry salad with fresh whipped cream

field greens with pear, caramelizedwalnuts, blue cheese, with balsamic vinaigrette

We will be making fourth of July frames to put memorable pictures, and we will make place mats for our guest using plain white place mats, and fabric pens.